Jordan blake
Author of
Own your sh!t
An unapologetically honest guide to personal growth through emotional intelligence and self-respect.
“When you take ownership of your emotions, you stop reacting out of fear and start responding from wisdom.”
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Self-discovery is about getting honest with who you are. Own Your Shit is a raw, compassionate guide to personal growth, accountability, and emotional intelligence.
Real transformation can’t be achieved through quick fixes or superficial inspiration. It comes from doing the deeper work of learning self-awareness, building self-respect, and consistently showing up with integrity, even when it’s uncomfortable.
I’m Jordan Blake — writer, communicator, and the voice behind Own Your Shit. My work centers on helping people grow through honesty and self-awareness so they can build natural confidence.
We all carry pain, but not everyone knows what to do with it. Own Your Shit is about recognizing when fear or insecurity starts running the show, and learning how to respond differently. The goal is to grow into someone who leads with awareness, confidence, and integrity.
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People-pleasing is one of those patterns that hides in plain sight. It affects far more people than we talk about, and it often starts as a way to stay safe, liked, or connected. Over time, it teaches you to ignore yourself. Your needs get blurry. Your limits soften. Saying no starts to feel heavy with guilt.
Breaking that pattern is uncomfortable at first, and then something shifts. You start trusting yourself again. Your boundaries feel stronger. Your choices feel more honest. There’s relief in realizing you don’t have to keep overriding yourself to belong.
I’ve just finished the first guided journal in my new Growth Tools collection: Learning to Say No. It’s designed to help you slow down, recognize people-pleasing patterns, and begin setting boundaries that honor your integrity, without forcing confrontation.
This is the first of several journals I’m creating, based on themes from my upcoming book.
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Are you ready to Own Your Shit?
This is an invitation to face your truth with radical honesty. Start your own reflection journey with the 30-day journal inspired by the book.