Jordan blake
Author of
Own your sh!t
An unapologetically honest guide to self-respect, confidence, and showing up for your life.
not sure where to begin?
Wherever you’re starting from, you’ll find honest guidance to meet you where you are.
why confidence feels so hard
Confidence starts by recognizing what’s getting in the way. Learn how insecurity shapes your thoughts, relationships, and everyday decisions, then discover small changes that naturally build confidence over time.
start with the free journal
If you’re looking for a low-pressure starting point, the free 30-day guided journal is a simple way to explore the ideas behind the book and begin building greater self-awareness at your own pace.
who is jordan blake?
Meet the mind behind Own Your Shit and take a peek behind the scenes. Discover how lived experience, curiosity, and a commitment to honest growth shaped the book and the mission behind it.
inside the book
Learn how insecurity shapes behavior, relationships, communication, and self-respect, and discover practical ways to build lasting confidence.
Self-discovery is about being honest with who you are. Own Your Shit is a raw, compassionate guide to personal growth, accountability, and emotional intelligence.
Real transformation can’t be achieved through quick fixes or superficial inspiration. It comes from doing the deeper work of learning self-awareness, building self-respect, and consistently showing up with integrity, even when it’s uncomfortable.
I’m Jordan Blake — writer, communicator, and the voice behind Own Your Shit. My work centers on helping people grow through honesty and self-awareness so they can build natural confidence.
We all carry pain, but not everyone knows what to do with it. Own Your Shit is about recognizing when fear or insecurity starts running the show, and learning how to respond differently. The goal is to grow into someone who leads with awareness, confidence, and integrity.
the story behind the book: ten years in the making
More than ten years ago, I started writing in a journal as a way to better understand myself, my past, and the patterns shaping my life. Even then, I knew deep down that healing wasn’t just about surviving what hurt me. I wanted to grow into someone who could use that self-awareness to help other people feel less alone in their own struggles.
Eventually, journaling turned into research, reflection, and a deeper exploration of insecurity, communication, emotional
intelligence, and self-respect. What began as personal work became Own Your Shit — a raw, honest guide for people who want to understand themselves more clearly and build healthier relationships with themselves and others.
personal updates from the middle of the work
from my desk
I just published a new story on Medium, and I’ve been working on it for a while.
It’s about something we don’t talk about nearly enough: abusive customers in service industries. For decades, employees in these industries have had to endure humiliation and disrespect as a job requirement, and it’s only getting worse, not better. No one should have to sacrifice their dignity for a paycheck. It’s time to change the narrative.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Are you ready to Own Your Shit?
This is an invitation to face your truth with radical honesty. Start your own personal growth journey with the 30-day journal inspired by the book.
